Me 5 Years From Now Essays

This is part of the a month long project called #Trust30. On their homepage they describe it as

“…an online initiative and 30-day writing challenge that encourages you to look within and trust yourself. Use this as an opportunity to reflect on your now, and to create direction for your future. 30 prompts from inspiring thought-leaders will guide you on your writing journey.”

For today’s question, I decided to share it. I felt this could inspire you to take a look at the question and find your own answers.

What would you say to the person you were five years ago?

What will you say to the person you’ll be in five years?

Today’s question happened to be asked by Corbett Barr, who I’ve mentioned here.

I decided to write it as a letter to myself five years ago and looking at myself five years from now.

6/8/2011

Dear Benny,

I’m writing you this letter from the future. Don’t throw it away. Don’t try and understand how it’s possible. The important thing is to read what I have to say. That’s all you need to understand.

You should do more with your life. If you keep doing what you’re doing now, you’re going to be miserable for the next five years. In five years from now, you’re only beginning to realize your potential in life. Start now. Don’t wait.

For too long you’ve been unhappy with where you work. You’ve been looking for more to your life. The reason you’ve been looking so long is because you’ve been too safe. You were afraid to try new things for fear of failing.

There is no success without failure. If you look at some of the most successful people they have failed numerous times. They didn’t give up because they believed in what they were doing. Don’t let failure stop you.

Take care of your body better. You’ll go through phases where you gain weight and lose weight but stay consistent and healthy. You do your best work when you’re exercising and eating right.

Don’t think buying more things will make you happier. The definition of success isn’t shown by the things you own. Even if you buy a nicer car or a bigger television won’t make you happy for long. In five years, you’ll have a house full of crap you don’t care about.

Surround yourself with inspiring people. Think about the people you hang out with now. Are they the type of people you would want to be? If you can’t find them, look online because there are so many amazing genuine people there.

Read more books. Read for pleasure but read more books that will teach you.

Don’t try and multitask. You’re terrible at it. Focus on one task at a time without distraction. You’ll get more done in less time. Trust me it’s taken me five years to figure that out. I’m going to save you some time.

I know you love to watch TV but limit it to only shows you truly love to watch. Cut out the rest.

Don’t complain about not having time to do things. Everyone has 24 hours in a day. Instead of making a to do list, try to make a list of things you shouldn’t do so you have more time.

Be thankful for what you have and you’ll have more. Thinking of what you don’t have will only keep bringing you nothing. You won’t believe how powerful gratitude is. It’s changing my life everyday as I write this. It can improve your health, wealth and relationships. Besides, life is a gift and you should be most thankful for that.

If you don’t like yourself, then nobody will like you. How do you expect to be a person everyone wants to be around when you don’t even like yourself? Start by changing your attitude about yourself and only then will people be drawn towards you.

Your thoughts are more powerful than you think. How you think you are is the type of person you will be. The outcome you envision in your mind will be the outcome you attract.

That inner voice you have? Shut him up.

There’s only one Benny Hsu in this world. I want you to live life the way you want to. Feel happy every day. I’ve had periods of wondering if life will get any better. Listen to me, it will.

Finally no matter what you do these next five years, make sure in May 2007  you go to Taipei and stay there for 21 months. Be sure on August 8, 2008 you go out with your kickboxing friends to a small club cause you’ll meet the woman of your dreams named Eleanor. Don’t worry she won’t act interested at first but by the end of the night, both your lives will never be the same.

See you in five years.

Sincerely,

Benny

P.S. Here’s a sneak peak at Eleanor. Beautiful isn’t she? Her personality is even better.

 

Five Years from Now

Question: What will you say to the person you’ll be in five years?

Dear Benny,

Wow Benny you look great! You look so fit and healthy. You look better than five years ago. You actually look younger but I don’t know how that’s possible. Are you sure you didn’t do Botox? Ok I believe you.

I’m happy the hard worked paid off you and found what it is that you love to do. I can feel the passion when I talk with you. You always tell me you wake up every day and feel so happy. That’s amazing.

I’ve never seen you happier. Five  years ago I imagined life would be good but not in my wildest dreams did I think it would be like this!

Just think in October 2010 you had your breaking point and started to make changes in your life.

You walk differently, you talk differently, and you think differently since then. All in a good way!

Your child is so adorable. Thankfully your child looks like Eleanor and not you. You know I’m kidding right? Ok..I’m not kidding but you understand!

You and Eleanor are the perfect couple and you both act like you just started dating. I knew when I met her she was the perfect one. Five years later I couldn’t be more correct.

I’m proud of what you have done. It makes me feel good to know the work you started five years earlier is paying off.

Just remember to be thankful every day and don’t take life for granted. Take care of your body and your mind. Continue to love yourself, love your family and your friends.

Keep inspiring people and touch lives every day. Your impact in other people’s lives is truly wonderful.

I’m going to work hard these new five years so I will make sure I’m matching how I want my life to be five years from now.

Till I get there, keep my seat warm.

Sincerely,

Benny

 

I hope you take the time to write the answers for yourself. It can be short. I can be long. It can be private or on your blog. Answer it however you want.

Also if you’re hoping to learn more about yourself and get better at writing, join #Trust30 at Ralphwaldoemerson.me.

I think you’ll find only positive benefits by learning about yourself from writing each day.

Thank you for taking the time to read my “letters” and hope it’s inspired you in some way.

 

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By Mike Simpson

So you want to know how to answer “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”

Well to do that, we need to get back in our magical time machine and go to a time most of us remember fondly.

Do you remember as a kid playing with the Magic 8-Ball? It was always popular at sleepovers!

For those of you who aren’t familiar with it…let us explain:

It was a goofy novelty toy; a giant pool ball filled with mysterious blue liquid.

You’d shake the ball, ask your question, and then flip it over…reading the answer on the bottom as it drifted up in ghostly white letters.

Regardless of the question you asked, you were only guaranteed one of twenty possible answers and odds were, if you weren’t happy with what you got…you’d shake the ball and ask again. And again. And again.

It was fun to pretend we had a window into the future by using the toy, but we all knew…it was just a toy and that there was no real way to predict the future.

So why do employers ask you to do just that?

Have you ever been in an interview and been asked the question “Where do you see yourself in five years?”

Why do they ask this question? Do they think that at some point between putting down our 8-Balls and joining the real world that we’ve developed a bit of ESP?

Of course not!

As much fun as it would be to actually have these skills (can you say Lottery Winner?!?), no employer actually assumes you have those powers.

Their reason behind the question isn’t to test your precognitive abilities but rather to see how well your answer lines up with the company’s long term goals.

Now before you rush into a long winded explanation of where you think you’ll be and all the money you’ll be making at your new and fabulous job, let me stop you for a second and give you a serious word of warning.

THIS QUESTION IS A TRAP.

Unlike many of the other questions we’ve explored before including Traditional and Behavioral ones, a question like this is intended specifically to trip you up.

Why would an interviewer want to trip you up? Simple…

Because they want to get rid of you.

Wait…isn’t the purpose of an interview to hire someone? Why would they ask questions designed to get rid of applicants?

Yes, the ultimate goal of any good hiring manager is to find an employee to fill their vacancies, but they’re not looking for just anyone.

They want the Perfect Candidate and trick questions like this one are meant to weed out everyone but the best of the best.

How To Answer “Where Do You See Yourself in Five Years”

So how do you answer this question without falling into the trap?

By sidestepping it.

Rather than leaping directly over it and avoiding the question all together, we’ll show you how to work around it in such a way that you not only answer the question, but that you do it in such a way that your answer aligns with the company’s long term goals and values.

First off, let’s stop and look at the question itself.

“Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”

Seems like an easy question, right?

Wrong.

Amazingly enough, this question is one that most job seekers get incorrect.

Why?

Because they’re answering it just like you’d answer it if you were shaking that Magic 8-Ball and peeking into the future…a future where you see yourself as driven and motivated.

Answering this question with a demonstration of your ambition (“I see myself as CEO of the company driving a sexy new sports car and bringing in unprecedented profits!”) might seem like the answer a hiring manager wants to see, but in actuality…it’s not.

Oh, and whatever you do, don’t answer with “Well, I see myself in your seat doing your job.

No. No. No. That answer isn’t funny. It’s not ambitious. It’s a red flag…and you’re waving it right in an interviewer’s face.

If you’re interested in getting more word-for-word sample answers to this interview question  then Click Here To Download Our “Where Do You See Yourself in 5 Years Cheat Sheet”

Top Tips For Avoiding the Traps While Outlining Your Future Goals

The thing you have to keep in mind is…they’re interviewing you for a job right now.

Not a job in the future…so why would they want to hear you wanting to do any job but the one you’re going for right now?

Rather than demonstrating your ambition and drive for future jobs…a hiring manager wants to see you demonstrate your level of commitment to the job you’re interviewing for.

They want to know what your career goals are for the career you’re interviewing for right now.

HOWEVER, and this is a big however…

They do want an answer to the question.  Yes, it’s all fine and dandy to show them that you are committed to the position, but they are still looking for an intelligent and well-balanced answer to the question.

So firmly plant your answer in the reality, which is, doing your best to do the job they are hiring for.  But make sure you show that you are a candidate that is ambitious and sees a future within the company, but is also a realist about what the future may hold.

What are your career goals?

Ask yourself this question, and research the company to find out what a potential growth path might be for you.  This should be the foundation for your answer.

So without further ado, here are the tips:

Keep the job in mind: Yes, you’ve already demonstrated your desire for the position based on the fact that you’ve applied and are now interviewing for…but this question is meant to dig deeper than that and find out just how much you really want the position. Many job require training and no employer wants to hire someone and invest time and money into them if they’re planning on leaving. They want someone who is genuinely enthusiastic about the position. The hiring manager is looking for a hire that is also a good investment.

Be specifically generic: Remember how your Magic 8-Ball gave you somewhat vague answers? You’d ask it a question and the answer you got sometimes was just fuzzy enough that it seemed to apply? Think of your answer to this question in the same sort of light. First off…you’re not psychic so don’t pretend to be. Make sure your answers are broad enough that they don’t make a hiring manager question your dedication to the position you are interviewing for. Keep your answers tailored to the position and realistic in scope.

MIKE'S TIP: "Generic" can be a particularly dangerous interview strategy when not used properly, so only use it for your answer to this interview question.  Job interviews are all about specificity and real-life examples, and being generic won't cut it anywhere else. Furthermore, as I mentioned above, you still need to show that you are ambitious so do your best to outline a realistic growth strategy using the next few tips.

Be enthusiastic: Like we’ve said time and time again….a hiring manager wants someone who is enthusiastic…not just someone who is looking to collect a paycheck and move onto the next adventure. Be genuinely invested in the position you’re applying for and do your research ahead of time so when you do your 5 year projection, you know what you’re talking about and your answer is realistic and grounded.

Be Realistic: Instead of pushing your future self into a ridiculous position of power that probably won’t happen…look at the job you’re applying for and take into consideration just how you might grow and develop within it and how that might also relate to the company’s needs and long term goals. Study the department you are applying to, including its structure and the previous path others have taken to get to where they are.  If you can’t find the information, this would be a good question to ask the interviewer during your interview.

Don’t be funny: When confronted with this question, the first thing you want to do is avoid a knee-jerk funny answer. Remember, they’re looking for reasons to get rid of you…and if your first answer is a funny but not serious one, you run the risk of waving that proverbial red flag we talked about earlier.

Don’t make up a position: As I just mentioned, you’ve hopefully already done your research on the company and know what sort of chain of advancement is available for the position you are applying for. Just throwing out a random title (“I want to be the senior manager of sales and acquisitions.”) might seem like a good idea…until you find out the job doesn’t actually exist. Oops.

Make your answer 2 parted: The first part of your answer should focus on the immediate position you are applying for and how you are excited by that opportunity. The second part of your answer deals with your future plans and expectations. By making it a 2 part answer, you’re reaffirming your desire for the job while at the same time answering the long term component in a logical and responsible way.

So how do I answer this question? Is there really a right way or am I just doomed from the start?

Of course!

Just as there’s a wrong way to answer, there’s a right way as well…and we’ll walk you through three different scenarios so you can get a feel for how to approach this well laid trap.

Where Do You See Yourself In 5 Years Example Answers

Example 1:

“Let me start by saying that I’m really excited about the position we are discussing and my number one goal is to do the best job I can at this role. Having said that, if down the line there’s an opportunity for advancement and I’ve proven that I have not only the skills and experience needed to take on this next level of responsibility, then of course I would be interested.”

Well played there! You’re showing that you’re dedicated to the position and that you are ambitious, but not ridiculously so. But why not take it one step further and outline what you plan to do if and when that advancement becomes available?

“I’m also really passionate about the work I do and would love if there were opportunities for me down the line to also be able to mentor other employees or new recruits to be successful within this position, perhaps as a manager or supervisor.”

Well, well well…future employee…nicely put! You’re showing with this second statement that you are grounded enough in reality that you’re aware astronomical leaps forward in careers don’t normally occur within 5 years, but ambitious enough to know that advancement does happen…and when it does, it leave vacancies that you’re willing to help fill by providing training for potential replacements down the road.

Example 2:

“From the moment I read the job description for this position I was really excited about your company’s role in the community, and for this reason, am thrilled at the possibility of working with you for a long time.I’m very passionate about outreach and I’m looking forward to the opportunity to be heavily involved in this area.”

First off, good job complimenting the company! You’re showing that you’ve done your research and that you’re also looking for a position that allows growth.

“While my main focus moving forward will be on the position we are discussing today, I’m hopeful that I’ll be able to grow within this position to take on more and be a part of new and exciting projects in the community.”

Again, nicely done. You’re letting the employer know that you’re dedicated to the job you’re applying for right now but that you’re also committed to the long term growth of the company…and your role within that growth.

Example 3:

“I’m glad you asked! One of the reasons that I applied to this company was because of your company’s reputation for helping with its employee’s career growth as well as providing advancement opportunities. Long term commitment from an employer is important to me because it creates a sense of belonging and really brings out my desire to “go to battle” for the company.”

Again, you’ve done a nice job complimenting the company culture as well as reaffirming your desire to be a long term employee. A hiring manager loves to hear that you are a solid investment.

“I’m really driven to achieve both mine and the company’s goals, and it is my belief that this stability will allow me to do so as I grow within this role.Five years down the road I see myself growing into a supervisor or manager where I’ll be able to use my skills to support and influence others.”

Again, you’re dedicating yourself to the position but at the same time, letting the hiring manager know that you’re also interested in growing and increasing your level of responsibility.

Putting It Together

There you have it…three solid examples of how to answer the question “Where do you see yourself in 5 years” as well as tips on how to avoid the dreaded hidden trap employers like to spring on unsuspecting job applicants.

Keep in mind that the interviewer wants to hear what you plan to do with the job you’re applying for right now and that your answer should reflect reasonable and realistic growth… More than anything, you want your answer to reassure the hiring manager that investing in you isn’t risky and that you’re the Perfect Candidate for the job.

So put your Magic 8-Ball down; put your Ouiji board back into the game closet and leave the Tarot Cards at home.

You don’t really need ESP to see a future with a company…you just need a few easy to remember tips and a healthy dose of reality.

And above all…

Good luck!

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